Sometimes, just being able to enjoy your cherished hobbies means so much, and helps you feel like yourself when facing a delicate time in life. Since Leo Hecker, 88, hung up his spurs and saddle as a ranch hand 20 years ago, his days have been filled with selfless service for a cause near to his heart. With purpose and passion, Leo has handmade more than one million red crepe paper poppies, both big and small, for the American Legion Auxiliary. The Auxiliary sells the poppies throughout the state of North Dakota leading up to Memorial Day to honor military members who have lost their lives with proceeds benefitting disabled and hospitalized veterans.
Each poppy takes approximately two to three minutes to make and requires carefully assembling each element using wire and pliers, and finally, attaching the ‘In Memoriam’ tag with a sturdy adhesive. “I spend some time every day making poppies. I used to spend as much as 12-16 hours a day when the Auxiliary really needed them done,” Leo said.
A little bit each day adds up to countless hours throughout the year on a project that also holds special meaning for Leo. This work carries on the legacy of his friend Archie, who originally taught him the craft when they were both living at the North Dakota Veterans Home in Lisbon. “Archie was the nicest guy I ever seen in my life. He showed me how to do everything [make poppies],” Leo shared. “I always figured he was the most honest guy I’d ever known.”
As a young man, Leo was drafted into service and served for three years and 9 months in the Marine Corps. “Well, I figured lots of people die in war, you know. I’m one of the ones that came out of there alive,” he explained. “Making poppies is a memorial for the ones who have died; it’s the least I can do.” With no family living close by, Leo is living his best life in service to others, and Hospice of the Red River Valley is helping him along the way.
In early 2017, the advanced stages of Leo’s colon cancer prompted a move from his home of 18 years, the North Dakota Veterans Home in Lisbon, N.D., to Sheyenne Care Center in Valley City, N.D., where they could better accommodate his growing needs. When he made the move, Leo also enlisted the help of Hospice of the Red River Valley to add complementary support to the care provided by facility staff.
“When Leo first moved to the Care Center, it was quite the transition for him so I worked to help him adjust to his new home and the added support,” Karolee, Hospice of the Red River Valley social worker, said. “Not only was he adjusting to the move, but he was also told his cancer was terminal at the same time. I really encouraged him to talk about how he was feeling during that time to help him process things.”
In visiting with Leo, Hospice staff discovered a treasured book of his was misplaced in the move to his new home. The beloved book, ‘Echoing Trails II,’ told the history of Billings County, N.D. Leo looked at the book often, reminiscing about the families and place where he grew up. “Leo enjoys history and talking about his childhood, what he did and where he worked, so I knew trying to locate a copy of the book was important,” Karolee explained.
After doing a bit of research and making a call to the North Dakota State Library, Karolee located a copy of the book at Valley City State University and was able to check it out for Leo. Karolee renewed the book several times for Leo and eventually was able to locate a volume he could keep. “He was so pleased. He looks through the book and tells you all about each person and things he remembers,” she said.
With Sheyenne Care Center and Hospice of the Red River Valley working in tandem, Leo’s days are filled with quiet dignity. He is able to focus on what brings him joy—meticulously constructing poppies, reminiscing about family and home and attending church—all while being well-cared for and free of pain and symptoms of his disease.
Above and beyond caring for his physical and emotional needs, Leo’s Hospice team has worked to preserve these joyful moments—and timeless treasures—to help ensure Leo’s time left is meaningful to him. “They’ve been really good to me. I couldn’t find better help,” Leo shared.
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About Hospice of the Red River Valley
Hospice of the Red River Valley is an independent, not-for-profit hospice serving all, or portions of, 29 counties in North Dakota and Minnesota. Hospice care is intensive comfort care that alleviates pain and suffering, enhancing the quality of life for patients with life-limiting illnesses and their loved ones by addressing their medical, emotional, spiritual and grief needs. For more information, call toll free 800-237-4629, email firstname.lastname@example.org or visit www.hrrv.org.