Beginning with a long courtship and throughout 63 years of marriage, Larry and Marcella MacLeod experienced a life together full of depth, adventure and, above all, love. Both small-town natives, they knew of each other because they were from neighboring towns, but they each moved away to pursue successful careers. It wasn’t until several years later that Larry and Marcella would come together as a couple.
Larry built his legacy in the education and athletic arenas, starting out as an English teacher and eventually moving into athletics for more than 35 years at Minnesota State University Moorhead as the head men’s basketball coach, and later, the athletic director.
Marcella found success as an administrative assistant initially working for the State Department in Washington, D.C., during WWII, then moving to Rochester, Minn., to work alongside the chief administrator at Mayo Clinic. Her path eventually brought her back to the Red River Valley, working at WDAY in Fargo.
But it was in Moorhead, Minn., where the couple made their home, raised one son, and shared a wonderful life full of many travels and love. They were inseparable until 2011 when Marcella unexpectedly fell, breaking her hip.
After the fall, she moved into an assisted living facility for three months, and her family made plans to move her into an independent living community with Larry after she recovered. Marcella only spent one week with Larry in that new home before experiencing a second devastating fall that broke her hip again.
Larry recognized the new challenges Marcella faced meant he would be unable to care for her on his own, as they originally planned. Instead, she would reside in an assisted living facility just down the road from Larry, and he sought the assistance of Hospice of the Red River Valley to care for Marcella in the final year of her life.
“There were limits in the facility she was staying at, and I couldn’t do a lot of the things that Hospice does, as much as I might have wanted to, I couldn’t,” Larry explained. “So I decided to have Hospice come in. From what I envisioned and what I talked with Hospice staff about, I was happy with how they cared for Marcella.”
Even though Larry wasn’t able to be with Marcella as much as he wanted to because they lived separately, he felt comfortable entrusting Hospice staff with her care. He had confidence in their ability to care for her needs, some of which included personal cares, nursing assistance and chaplaincy visits. Hospice volunteers also provided companionship for Marcella.
“It provided a lot of relief to know Marcella had that extra care,” he said. “I got the impression they [Hospice staff] did it out of the goodness of their hearts. It was obvious to me that caring for her was a labor of love, and I appreciated it.”
With the support of Hospice, Larry could focus on spending precious one-on-one time with his wife. His familiarity with the concept of hospice care through previous support of the organization also provided some peace of mind. “I don’t think it’s an end-of-life thing, necessarily,” he shared. “There are many things that can be done for a person before they die. That’s what happened in this case. She lived the best quality of life for as long as she could. I am happy they could do that for her.”
About Hospice of the Red River Valley
Hospice of the Red River Valley is an independent, not-for-profit hospice serving all, or portions of, 29 counties in North Dakota and Minnesota. Hospice care is intensive comfort care that alleviates pain and suffering, enhancing the quality of life for patients with life-limiting illnesses and their loved ones by addressing their medical, emotional, spiritual and grief needs. For more information, call toll free 800-237-4629, email email@example.com or visit www.hrrv.org.